My Grandma Hankins was an everyday housewife, as was Mama Haynes. Neither worked jobs outside of the home that I know of, although Mama Haynes, living on a farm with Papa Haynes, did her fair share of chores like gathering eggs, churning butter, picking cotton, tending to her garden, along with many other farm related tasks. Mom and her sisters helped their mother do the same.
Nowadays, the word “housewife” seems to make some women, along with a few thin-skinned men, melt upon hearing it. It’s actually considered demeaning by many libber types. I have to chuckle wondering what Mama Haynes would think of these people. I’m sure she held strong to the adage, “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never harm me!”
What brought this subject to my mind was a recent commencement speech by NFL Kansas City football player, Harrison Butker, at Benedictine College, a private Catholic institution in Atchison, Kansas. I’ll only touch on a part of it. A couple of lines from his presentation evoked outrage from female woke members all over the country. Refer back to the second paragraph of my composition regarding thin-skinned people.
Harrison Butker said, “Some of you may go on to lead successful careers in the world, but I would venture to guess that the majority of you are most excited about your marriage and the children you will bring into this world.”
CNN said that this speech was the worst mistake Harrison Butker ever made in his life, although I highly doubt he feels that way, and rightly so. Unless things have changed, a mere opinion isn’t against the law, although some Taylor Swift followers, or Swifties, would disagree. If folks don’t believe the same as these lefties it immediately becomes a cardinal sin.
After hearing that part of Harrison’s spiel, I came to the following conclusion. Butker was simply telling female graduates that it’s okay to be stay-at-home moms. That of course, goes against the grain of the secular world. What impressed me most is that this guy had courage enough to speak his mind unlike so many sissy, politically correct, emotionally challenged men these days.
Whether you agree with Harrison or not, he didn’t hold back where his opinions are concerned, much like a late friend of mine, William Lowe. William didn’t care if people agreed with him or not and wasn’t afraid of hurting someone’s delicate feelings. Like a bull in a China cabinet, he’d bluntly get his point across and then move on. There was no debating his ideology afterwards. That’s one trait him and I share alike.
Besides Mama Haynes and Grandma Hankins, fictional television character, June Cleaver, was the consummate everyday housewife. Some might remember her as Ward Cleaver’s wife on the “Leave it to Beaver” sitcom from the 1960s. The series in syndicated form is still shown on certain channels.
June Cleaver was portrayed as a good and faithful wife, along with being a loving and caring mother to her boys, Wally and Theodore “Beaver” Cleaver. She knew her place in the home and rarely complained. There were a few times when she became upset with things, yet you never heard her scream obscenities or throw tantrums when voicing disapproval. If I didn’t have a mother while growing up, I’d choose June Cleaver in a heartbeat.
The summer of 1968, country music artist, Glen Campbell, released a song titled, “Dreams Of The Everyday Housewife.” That song was very popular back then and is still heard today. I’m sure each time it plays, a snowflake melts upon hearing that housewife word alone. For that reason—I believe it should be played at least five times a day.
I’ll be watching what Swifties attempt to do with Harrison Butker. I’m sure they’ll be calling for his resignation or termination as they always do when someone lights their fire. Television gadflies, Joy Behar and Whoopi Goldberg, are probably frothing at the mouth thinking up devilish ways to pay him back.
Should Kansas City, let him go (he’s one of the best kickers out there), there are several teams searching for a new kicker. The New England Patriots need one desperately. I doubt Chief’s coach, Andy Reid, would sack #7 over the man’s personal opinion. Reid doesn’t come across to me as being one of those sissy, politically correct, emotionally challenged type of guys. Amen.